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« Reply #60 on: February 27, 2009, 02:41:43 AM »


WTF does drinking alcohol have to do with having a miserable and ugly personality? Good Christ almighty, I swear some of you people are totally bombed when you post the ridiculous arguments you do.

I love the ones that post the novels and diatribes too...like making it LONGER will make it make more sense. Roll Eyes

nothing. It's just if I have a comment on obesity it's insulting whatever the comment is  Roll Eyes

@ Sin Cut-you make senseless arguments that are just coverups to insult Americans.  Give it a rest, buddy.

For someone who writes so much you know so very little....

Glass house....live in one maybe?

Hey, I wasn't trying to attack US here, the percent of the population that is obese is rising in Finland, too.

I used US as an example, not a scapegoat.

Great point Axl4Prez2004, especially about the food industry and the parents. Also D pointed out that it isn't easy to just jump one day, old habbits die hard etc.

So if a kid just get more and more fat, who's to blame? I saw this document about this little girl and I kept wondering what the hell is wrong with her parrents.  She wasn't chubby, she was so fat she'd be dead before turning 21. I mean who's to say how an adult must eat, but isn't it a parental duty to keep the childs diet healthy?

You guys remember the movie "Shallow Hal" with Jack Black?

Yeah, it was a good movie  Smiley
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« Reply #61 on: February 27, 2009, 03:22:29 AM »

WTF does drinking alcohol have to do with having a miserable and ugly personality?

How do you define it?
I'd say all christians of european heritage are the most morally declined (or just stupid, brainwashed) beings in the world.

People will (or they should) always seek to become the superhuman, thats the creation and force of nature.

Ugly, fat, imorale, dishonest, bastardisised etc beings aren't attractive to us for a reason.
Sure, they can be great persons but are defect humans.

Same with those who lack the understanding and instinct of moderation, or are just sick.

It's rejection of genes and no amount of christian and multi-cultural brain-wash will erase it from man and nature.



everything is related.



Yes, you are spot on. ok

Americans too are very influenced by nordic mythology, culture and democracy.
All the weekdays are dedicated to germanic and norse gods, where two days are dedicated to sun and the moon + a greek deity (saturnus).

They are all pagan tho, thats the common trait.

The reason I say christianity isn't a religion is because it's not by the respective meaning and origin.

It's the same with Islam, Judaism and so on. I'm not gonna explain here but this video might get some see more clear.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D1FdtpH8lSI

In paganism, only nature is holy and the only true gods are the gods within man.

Chistianity is incomplete and have so much wrong values, and people are being told it's good tho it ruins people, nations and local culture in the long run. Why people ban nazi-symbols and not christan symbols, why books like Mein Kampf instead of Malleus Maleficarum (I am against banning any books tho) is banned in some european countries is beyond me when the fact is that christians has done the most and biggest crimes of cruelty towards the diferent human races in history.

In scandinavian languages we have several words for love, describing the diferent forms of love.

Pagans had even more.

Frigg, a nordic godess, is a metaphore of love to humans, and the love to your ethnic group.
It's what makes animals protect their genetic comrades, what makes the mother defend it's offspring and so on.

It's the force of the creation and continuation of diferent species, like idiot atheists describes in their theory by Darwin.

Without Frigg, Nanna (vicinity, closeness) also disappear and we disconnect, getting comfort in flock-culture.

Frigg is the natural cause to racial/class discrimination aswell.

Freyr and Freyja is the love for the young, well-created, beautifull, fertile, strong etc human.
These are the biggest gods of Europe under a series of diferent names, also worshipped as the sun and the moon.

Titles like Frue, Frau, Madamme, Ma'm, Misstress, noblewoman (somewhat), lord, gentleman (sort of) etc derives from representatives of these.

Note, obviously Freyr is the biggest anti-christ to christianity. Satan.

These are dual-existences in nature, paganism and in real life tho. Also as femine and masculine. Sun/Moon.

Freyja's ride is two cats called cuddler and horny, while Freyr's ride is a horse called blonde hair. Gods of love, lust and fertility. Kiss

Freyr and Freyja was originally the Vanir given to the Aesir and without explaining it I can hint that;
- sexuality is both inherited and formed in life. Wink

Freyja became a part of the Asynjur and is blonde with a very erotic nature, of course friendly
The western societies still worship these parts of man, but in a form without any contact to it's intention.

People like these, and in this part of life produce the best children.

The possesion of Freyr and Freyja also makes predators instinctivly notice the old, sick and weak.
Parts of them make us reject ugly and fat people as sexy, complicated.

They have as an addition many charracteristics and preferences diferent from eachother too, you can read in mythology. Smiley

In the mythology they usually mingle with gods of morale, loyjality as the contact is imperative. yes

The narrowminded christian black and white view obviously fail to see how "evil" is natural and needed.

There is a lot more gods, gods of justice, solidarity, loyality etc but these two relates most to relationships.




The purpose in animals collective life is to improve the race. Guess all know about Darwin (atheist sucks tho).

That goes for humans too, this is the original purpose of the olympics;
To find the best man suited for the task of marrying a coven of priestesses, quality is all that matters.

This is what we inheritly search in humans when doing the events that may or may not lead to sex/a relationship.

No amount of "humanistic" christian brain-wash and propagandic indoctrination will erase it.

Unless the entire human species detoriates into a shallow fat bastard on mass-culture. hihi

When we wan't children, too often we only focus on eachothers money and personality traits...which is good!
But most important is the genetic quality we pass on.

This is whats lost today, it's politically incorrect.

Christianity disconnects us from true knowledge, what matters.

And ALL these things relate to relationships, cause these forces still influence normal beings.

Modern culture opress these things, comodifies it, market it-
-so the natural outcome is relationship problems.

It's very hard to comunicate and go outside the manufactured boundaries for some people.

It's hard to tell eachother what needs we have, how we wan't it out of fear.

That fear stems from flock-processes.

Humans also see eachother as the social position we hold in our class-
- not just the personification we manifest, genetic quality, morality, value-foundation, taste etc

We protect the position at all cost so most (weaklings! Tongue) not wanna be labeled witch, nazi, racist etc as affects our wellbeing and freedom socially.

So if you're being honest with yourself and others thats the best advice for a good relationship to other humans in general-
-wether you are after just sex and a friend, a father and long-time partner material, security.

This is what I think Jessica struggles with.

She found someone she been with but are unsure wether this is the right and wrong person for a long-termed relationship and because of christianity and modern culture it's difficult to comunicate and explain what ground she's on for the time being.

Advice is as I first posted, honesty without compromise.

Thats my take on it. peace



Idiots can be found everywhere. It's got nothing to do with race, nationality, age, gender, education, sexual orientation....

Something to think about to those who "love Nordic women" only or whatever.  Roll Eyes




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That would be me, I agree 100% with your first sentence.

You can still not dispute the fact of genetic dispostion of behaviour patterns.

Yes, I also prefer nordic women because of the beauty of the race, because it's my race and the qualities to the race.

They are intelligent, sporty, loving, caring people with true pride, integrity and respect usually foremost.

Etnophelia (racemixing) happens less in nature than homosexuality.
Yes, many wild animals are gay Tongue

May I say I am against multi-ethnic societies and find interacial breeding distgusting by personal opinion? hihi

Secondly, bastards have more problems with, both inherited and not, disabilities, deformalities (including baldness) and diseases when in fertile age.

Thrirdly, do we wanna see germanic and nordic people end up like the native americans when they felt the force of christianity?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ab1EixVFKZE

It's very few pure-blooded people left in northern-europe.
But I can't help laugh at the irony that they will disappear this way given the testament of Hitler. Grin

I'm a HUGE fan of Bruce Lee so there is no blind hate here, but our nose rarely lie.

When I say this it's easy to make stereotypic assumptions.

If you're asian, jewish, christian, feminist whatever, peace. I'm against the institution of it, not anyones person.

The bottom line is that they act like this because they are still boys.

Great argument! Not... Roll Eyes
Sin Cut may be young, so intelectually he maybe not argument so deeply into things, but instinctivly he rejects whats wrong.

I'm fully aware I can offend people, it's not the intention tho. peace

By focusing on morale, nobility, honesty, honor, courage, beauty, strenght, health, youth etc we increase the quality of our collective race, which is a responsebillety and the best gift we can give to those who come after us, and it increase quality in personal life, social life and love-life.

Eliteism doesn't exlude solidarity (Tyr/Ty).

It's a struggle with emotions to get there but a necesisity of whats holy, nature. peace



You guys remember the movie "Shallow Hal" with Jack Black?



Yes, and? Tell us where you're coming from. Tongue
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« Reply #62 on: February 27, 2009, 04:59:33 AM »

Jessica given the advice you gave me last year, I say castrate... him while he sleeps.


I have to say I'm joking, Jessica was very helpful.
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« Reply #63 on: February 27, 2009, 05:00:16 AM »

Jessica given the advice you gave me last year, I say castrate... him while he sleeps.

What advice did you get?
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« Reply #64 on: February 27, 2009, 07:19:52 AM »

Hmm.. I'm more jealous of those "ugly" people who seem very happy together, than of those beautiful, perfect people who seem to have nothing in common with each other. So I guess I'd rather be ugly and happy than beautiful and miserable. Of course that doesn't mean you can't be both beautiful and happy (or ugly and unhappy, haha), but... well, that's just the way I see things.

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« Reply #65 on: February 27, 2009, 08:50:44 AM »

Hmm.. I'm more jealous of those "ugly" people who seem very happy together, than of those beautiful, perfect people who seem to have nothing in common with each other. So I guess I'd rather be ugly and happy than beautiful and miserable. Of course that doesn't mean you can't be both beautiful and happy (or ugly and unhappy, haha), but... well, that's just the way I see things.



True  ok

Does anyone remember those hideous pics of the pencil neck marying a balding fat chic?

I mean, that must be definition of ugly.
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« Reply #66 on: February 27, 2009, 10:42:09 AM »

So did anyone ever get relationship advice out of all this crapola?
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« Reply #67 on: February 27, 2009, 12:01:23 PM »

Yes, I also prefer nordic women because of the beauty of the race, because it's my race and the qualities to the race.

They are intelligent, sporty, loving, caring people with true pride, integrity and respect usually foremost.

Etnophelia (racemixing) happens less in nature than homosexuality.


I don't think anybody needs to read more than that to see that you're basically preaching the old nazi propaganda.

You think your own race is better than all the others? Isn't there a word for that?




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« Reply #68 on: February 27, 2009, 12:27:25 PM »



SLC your attempts to get laid are just the worst.

You bitches need to learn some respect towards women. Second is that none of you are anything spectacular to look at in the first place, so where do you get off? Finally even if you were GQ handsome, it still wouldn't give you the green light to say stupid shit to or about women.



Sure, I'm respectful, to people in general, not just the fat ones.

That doesn't change the fact that being overweight is a heath issue. Also it looks disgusting. Sure you can die if you cut your wrist when feeling bad, but cutting another piece of cheese cake will get the job done, too, in the long run.

For crying out loud the average  life expectancy in U.S. will level off or decline, mostly because of (childhood)obesity. What's wrong with you, shouldn't this problem being recognized instead of all the hushing and slogans big is beatiful? Isn't honesty a virtue anymore?

How is a drinking problem different? If a person drinks too much and has a problem, I'd hope his friends are there to point that out and trying to help him through?

See, here's the thing. I see a fat person in the gym and I'm thinking "Now, that's great, good for you man!". I might thinks just a little about how the fuck did he get that big, but nonetheless, it isn't the easiest thing to get up from the sofa and exercise, so that guy deserves my support.

Guess what, I don't feel that different if I see a drunk sober.

Now again, if I'm seeing a fat person at the McDonalds, well, it's just sad, maybe I'm narrow minded but if I couldn't be happy in a state like that I can't believe he is either?

Is it fun to be fat? Is it fun to sweat easily, to be out of breath, to have hard time finding a companion? To have your knees hurt? I'd say no.

Now, I'm not fond of doing something I don't like and so, I find living in misery spineless, and the burden on healthcare irresponsible.

And for the record, it wasn't me coming up with the ladypig, but Norway really nailed the phrace, since that's what people think (minus the fatties) and that's not the same as to go and say it to someone's face.

But people joke about it, else there wouldn't be any fat jokes around. People joke about gay people, about race and about religion.  I'd say it's easier to lose weight than stop being gay.

As far as my looks go. At least I'm not fat.

You're right obesity is a problem that needs to be addressed.  It's not attractive to many people and it's a major health issue.  So is alcoholism. 

So is smoking, Sin Cut.  How can you justify going off on obesity or other things when smoking is just as much of a burden on the healthcare system, if not more.  It's also really unattractive to some people.   What's the difference? 

I'm just saying you seem to have a very narrow view of others and what is attractive or healthy, while not looking at your own habits and self that might not be so attractive to others or healthy either. 


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« Reply #69 on: February 27, 2009, 12:32:08 PM »

And Norway, what are you talking about?!?   Huh Tongue
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« Reply #70 on: February 27, 2009, 12:42:12 PM »


I don't think anybody needs to read more than that to see that you're basically preaching the old nazi propaganda.

Another totalarian sheep-system enforced on people similar to christianity? Nooo! Tongue


Nazis where the first in Europe to protect animals by law, did it stop vets to defend values they believe in?
I hate neo-socialists, support democracy and what happened in the camps was horrible.

But the fact that they were breathtaken by the nordic race and culture shouldn't opress anyone imo. ok

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Is it ok that the respective race in some european countries get payed by their state for having children in this overpopulated world?




You think your own race is better than all the others? Isn't there a word for that?


I think there is diferent qualities to each race, superiority is too subjective. Pretty sure it's a name for it, I got my ladypig. Wink

In Australia, white people get more skincancer for example.


Finally even if you were GQ handsome, it still wouldn't give you the green light to say stupid shit to or about women.

Lets say a woman is "GQ handsome" they got no right say "stupid shit" to or about, lets say men who beat weaker women?

Having a ugly sexorgan and some sag-things on the chest doesn't make anyone noble Tongue
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« Reply #71 on: February 27, 2009, 06:23:33 PM »

Norway, holy shit man, you're serious, right?   nervous

All this crap about obesity, drinking, smoking...eugenics  nervous, I'll try to get us back on topic here:


Axl4Prez's relationship advice for the ladies:

Never date a man who is violent in any way, shape, or form.  (outside of an athletic endeavour of course)

Never date a man who abuses or is addicted to drugs or alcohol.  You may think you're the one who can heal the wounded bird...but you're not, and your life will be much more miserable with this p.o.s. dragging you down.

Never date a man who disrespects you by his words or actions. 

Do date the man who supports you in your own personal goals/life fulfillment plan.

Wait until marriage to have sex.  Before you all shout out, "well how do you know if he's terrible in bed? a selfish lover?? etc." I said no sex, but there's other stuff that can give you a damn good idea what's in store for your future.

Never dissociate love and sex...do so at your own peril.

Don't date a man outside of your ethnic background... hihi, sorry, had to throw that in there for Norway!  rofl Just Kidding!  Color means nothing.  Do you share the same values?  Whammo!  You're set.

Become friends first.  All this "friend zone" crap is for the birds.  You'll find greater joys in life than just sex.

Pursue your education and professional dreams before you get married.  Many a woman before you has been married with children and then shat on by a man who knows there's no way out for the woman with no education and left raising kids in an impossible situation.

A little advice here...all men are pigs...but not all men act like pigs.  Find the ones who are honest, not the ones who claim to be perfect.
 


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That pompous ass Axl4Prez2004!   beer

 



 

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« Reply #72 on: February 27, 2009, 06:47:10 PM »

Norway, holy shit man, you're serious, right?   nervous

Looks like it.


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« Reply #73 on: February 27, 2009, 08:07:46 PM »

Axl4prez, u gotta stop with that red highlight stuff

it absolutely kills my eyes.


One of the most common mistakes I think people make in relationships is just good ole fashioned over thinking shit.

Don't worry bout next year or next week or tomorrow. Just enjoy who u are with while u have them, if it doesn't work out, u get life experience from it and are a step closer to the person u are meant to find.


So don't stress over stuff. Let nature takes its course and as the old saying goes, everything comes out in the wash. If the person isn't meant for u, u will find out.

biggest mistake people make is trying to fit a circle into a square. U can see red flags and incompatibilities early in relationships.

problem is, most people try to make shit work that will never work thus inflicting lots of pain and wasting a lot of time.
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« Reply #74 on: February 27, 2009, 09:01:45 PM »

Axl4prez, u gotta stop with that red highlight stuff

it absolutely kills my eyes.

Sorry!...just kidding. Smiley


One of the most common mistakes I think people make in relationships is just good ole fashioned over thinking shit.

More common is not thinking at all.

Don't worry bout next year or next week or tomorrow. Just enjoy who u are with while u have them, if it doesn't work out, u get life experience from it and are a step closer to the person u are meant to find.

Not in my eyes.  People don't think enough.


So don't stress over stuff. Let nature takes its course and as the old saying goes, everything comes out in the wash. If the person isn't meant for u, u will find out.

Nature take its course?  sounds fatalistic to me...stay in control.

biggest mistake people make is trying to fit a circle into a square. U can see red flags and incompatibilities early in relationships.

I agree with ya there!

problem is, most people try to make shit work that will never work thus inflicting lots of pain and wasting a lot of time.

true.  very true.
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« Reply #75 on: February 27, 2009, 09:10:13 PM »

Axl4prez, u gotta stop with that red highlight stuff

it absolutely kills my eyes.


One of the most common mistakes I think people make in relationships is just good ole fashioned over thinking shit.

Don't worry bout next year or next week or tomorrow. Just enjoy who u are with while u have them, if it doesn't work out, u get life experience from it and are a step closer to the person u are meant to find.


So don't stress over stuff. Let nature takes its course and as the old saying goes, everything comes out in the wash. If the person isn't meant for u, u will find out.

biggest mistake people make is trying to fit a circle into a square. U can see red flags and incompatibilities early in relationships.

problem is, most people try to make shit work that will never work thus inflicting lots of pain and wasting a lot of time.
those are some wise words man ok
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« Reply #76 on: February 27, 2009, 11:49:32 PM »

And Norway, what are you talking about?!?   Huh Tongue
Really dude My response to that would be "who really gives a turkey" but I don't mean to be fresh.  I'll lirsten to much about anythang....  Your very mysterious yet not IDK who am I to judge?
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« Reply #77 on: February 28, 2009, 12:07:13 AM »

Axl4prez, u gotta stop with that red highlight stuff

it absolutely kills my eyes.

Sorry!...just kidding. Smiley


One of the most common mistakes I think people make in relationships is just good ole fashioned over thinking shit.

More common is not thinking at all.

Don't worry bout next year or next week or tomorrow. Just enjoy who u are with while u have them, if it doesn't work out, u get life experience from it and are a step closer to the person u are meant to find.

Not in my eyes.  People don't think enough.


So don't stress over stuff. Let nature takes its course and as the old saying goes, everything comes out in the wash. If the person isn't meant for u, u will find out.

Nature take its course?  sounds fatalistic to me...stay in control.

biggest mistake people make is trying to fit a circle into a square. U can see red flags and incompatibilities early in relationships.

I agree with ya there!

problem is, most people try to make shit work that will never work thus inflicting lots of pain and wasting a lot of time.

true.  very true.

well prez that is just my experience. I dated this one girl and I was with her for years and I probably didn't enjoy a day of it, cause like Jessica in the original post, I was so consumed with the future and the whole "are we gonna make it" will she dump me shit that I ended up driving her crazy and away.

Thats what I mean about over thinking. In a relationship, u can't get too far ahead. I don't think you should, after a few weeks of dating, be already trying to imagine a wedding and forever and all that stuff.

take it slow, one day at a time, enjoy it for the experience and what it is. If it ends, mourn it, get over it, learn from it and the next chapter of your life, the next part of your journey in life begins.

The worst thing u can do in life is let a broken heart turn u into an alcoholic or drug addict also. I've seen so many people let their lives go down the tube just cause they got dumped.
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« Reply #78 on: February 28, 2009, 12:53:38 AM »

Norway, holy shit man, you're serious, right?   nervous

All this crap about obesity, drinking, smoking...eugenics  nervous, I'll try to get us back on topic here:


Axl4Prez's relationship advice for the ladies:

Never date a man who is violent in any way, shape, or form.  (outside of an athletic endeavour of course)

Never date a man who abuses or is addicted to drugs or alcohol.  You may think you're the one who can heal the wounded bird...but you're not, and your life will be much more miserable with this p.o.s. dragging you down.

Never date a man who disrespects you by his words or actions. 

Do date the man who supports you in your own personal goals/life fulfillment plan.

Wait until marriage to have sex.  Before you all shout out, "well how do you know if he's terrible in bed? a selfish lover?? etc." I said no sex, but there's other stuff that can give you a damn good idea what's in store for your future.

Never dissociate love and sex...do so at your own peril.

Don't date a man outside of your ethnic background... hihi, sorry, had to throw that in there for Norway!  rofl Just Kidding!  Color means nothing.  Do you share the same values?  Whammo!  You're set.

Become friends first.  All this "friend zone" crap is for the birds.  You'll find greater joys in life than just sex.

Pursue your education and professional dreams before you get married.  Many a woman before you has been married with children and then shat on by a man who knows there's no way out for the woman with no education and left raising kids in an impossible situation.

A little advice here...all men are pigs...but not all men act like pigs.  Find the ones who are honest, not the ones who claim to be perfect.
 


Sincerely,
That pompous ass Axl4Prez2004!   beer

 



 



Wow.  That red is hard to read.  You made some great points, and thanks for that.  I agree totally, and that could be said for men or women - except for the sex before marriage thing.   Not everyone necessary believes in marriage, either.  I would say that sex is very important in a relationship, I think, but not the be all end all.  Communication and trust and honesty and respect come before that.  You have that, I think everything else will fall into place.   
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« Reply #79 on: February 28, 2009, 01:13:40 AM »






You think your own race is better than all the others? Isn't there a word for that?


I think there is diferent qualities to each race, superiority is too subjective. Pretty sure it's a name for it, I got my ladypig. Wink

In Australia, white people get more skincancer for example.




Umm, yes...there is a word for this and I am fairly certain we all know what it is. no

Just remember folks....beauty is in the eye of the beerholder! peace
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