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i'm in the process of getting together with this girl i'm in love with. or at least i think i'm in love with her. i certainly adore this girl and i picture a future with her, we really get along great and she seems perfect for me. we have been dating for like four weeks without actually being a couple yet, but a dream i had two nights ago kind of made me question whether i'm really in love with her or if it's just infatuation. you see, i dreamt that i was at her house to meet her parents, and she and both of her parents were sitting at the table and i was standing in the middle of the room, and her father aggressively told her that i wasn't the right type for her, and to my surprise my reaction, in the dream, was indifference, and maybe even relief. i left the house without saying anything and not feeling sad at all, actually more like i was free to go, that "oh well, maybe it's for the better" feeling. could this be a sign? does it make sense at all that i have strong feelings for this girl when i'm awake but not when i'm dreaming? i don't want to read too much into this but maybe it's a sign that my feelings for her aren't as strong as i thought. what do you think? i was head over heels for her until i had that dream, and i sort of still am, but now i feel more uncertain about the whole thing.
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If you "think" are in love, it is probably infatuation. "In love" takes time to develop. You need to see her on her "off" days, the days she does not look great and is not all made up, the days she is bitchy. If you still want to be with her then, after seeing the bad side, it is love. Most of all, you should just enjoy being with her and enjoy being together as a couple. It just feels right.
As for the dream, I not a psychologist, but I would be interested in what emotions are expressed in dreams. That is, I wonder if the full range of emotions are expressed in dreams or only a part of the spectrum (anger, fear, lust, etc). I wonder if "love," as a very complex emotion, is expressed in a dream, or even can be.
In short, I would not read too much into the "indifference" expressed in your dream. If you are early in the relationship, the indifference may simply mean that the subconscience has not yet formed a definite emotion to express via the dreams.
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haha, thanks man, consultation fee is on its way
well, i can tell you this much, from the day i met her i knew she was the kind of girl that i wanted to be with, and for the past 4 weeks i have spent time with her almost every day and i have seen her on her "off" days already, doesn't make me want to be with her any less at all, on the contrary. it all seemed to be going perfect until i started having these doubts because of that dream. it is probably ridicilous to put this much into a dream but it just really made me think. i don't know about feeling love in dreams, i'm not a psychologist, but i do know that i shouldn't feel relief when realizing that i can't have the girl i feel i'm in love with, even if it's in a dream
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If everything else is going great, then forget the dreams. The mind plays games, and no one, not even psychologists, have figured it all out. Just enjoy yourself and hope she is the one. Don't let dreams sabotage what may be something special.
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Quote from: Krispy Kreme on June 17, 2007, 10:18:07 PM
Ok, your tab is now $300!
DAMN!!!
i'm broke man, love has its price and taking this girl out ain't cheap
and you're probably right about the dream. screw it, i'll try to forget about it and just enjoy the ride
thanks!
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