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Pretty down, had a rough night.
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At the risk of making myself look like a total loser even more than I've already done in the past, I'm going to post a little story here in the hope that it will make me feel a little better.
Met a girl. Hit it off, a lot. Usually I'm a fairly intense guy in these situations, lots of texts, phone calls etc. She takes that roll this time, which I like because it takes all the pressure off of me. We go out on an official date. Goes great. Sushi, movie, back to her place to chill for a while. I head home, she calls the next day to ask me out again. I say yes, because I like her. She continues to call me each day and we have a short conversation. Things going great.
She comes home from work tonight and texts me that it's too much, going too quick, and she doesn't want a relationship. I respond with a "I'm a little confused here" and get a "I'm going to bed" in response.
What the hell?
And this sucks. My love life is an epic disaster most of the time, so when this progressed I was happy. And I liked her, she (or so I thought) is an awesome girl. So I'm kinda bummed, and I'm up late anyway, so I figured why not see what you all had to say.
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they call it PMS cause Mad Cow Disease was already taken
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she is a female..don't even try to begin to understand her, because that is impossible. SHE doesn't even know what is going on in her fucked up little head, let alone you trying to figure it out. Here is some advice..lose her number. She is a head case and you don't need that. Go find another girl.
Don't chase, replace!
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There will be no chasing. I'm sure I make plenty of dating mistakes, but chasing is not one of them
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Quote from: GunnerOne 84 on May 07, 2009, 04:22:40 AM
There will be no chasing. I'm sure I make plenty of dating mistakes, but chasing is not one of them
thats what im talkin about!
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I definitely like her, but if she's dumb enough to flake on this, that's her loss. I'm not going to let her push/pull and fuck with me.
Still sucks though. I definitely like her. A lot.
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Act like you don't care. It will drive her crazy
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Sounds to me like she's been talking to her girlfriends who advised her to back off and play it cool and let YOU chase after her (i.e., do all the calling and texting, etc.)
Bottom line is that IMO she's playing some stupid mind game. You should move on.
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Maybe you could at least find out the source of her troubles first, maybe they can be conquered, well at least if you really think you like her, it may be worth looking into further
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Those mind games get old after, uhhh, the age of 16?
No place for mind games in "relationships." (God, I hate that word.)
That goes double for men who are trying to act tough and be bad boys.
Just be straight with each other!
Gunner, just give her a call and tell her what you told us. You have nothing to lose, I don't think.
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^^Exactly! ..and well said!
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chick has Ex Boyfriend issues
should've hit it and ran brother
seriously
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Quote from: D on May 07, 2009, 06:48:36 PM
chick has Ex Boyfriend issues
should've hit it and ran brother
seriously
Spoken like a true male D
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Quote from: $$$$ on May 07, 2009, 02:00:40 AM
they call it PMS cause Mad Cow Disease was already taken
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Quote from: msaxl43 on May 07, 2009, 08:23:32 PM
Quote from: D on May 07, 2009, 06:48:36 PM
chick has Ex Boyfriend issues
should've hit it and ran brother
seriously
Spoken like a true male D
No, Im not speaking like a true male. I am just giving this guy the right advice. If a chick pulls shit like this, she has eithe rEx Boyfriend issues or is an attention whore is just fucked up.
By saying hit it and run, that means, don't waste your time trying to date her. because she is going to be pure heartache.
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Quote from: D on May 07, 2009, 09:01:56 PM
No, Im not speaking like a true male.
By saying hit it and run, that means, don't waste your time trying to date her.
yeah ... that's what everyone thinks "hit it and run" means!!!
Typical D ... gets called on shit and tries to spin his way out of it
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Quote from: D on May 07, 2009, 06:48:36 PM
chick has Ex Boyfriend issues
should've hit it and ran brother
seriously
NOOOOO you dont want to do that...what if you knock her up? Your life is over...stay away from this one...When it doubt, get out!
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what i said was slang for don't waste your time fallin for her
these are girls u consider a fuck and thats it but not serious GF material.
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Quote from: D on May 07, 2009, 10:33:13 PM
what i said was slang for don't waste your time fallin for her
these are girls u consider a fuck and thats it but not serious GF material.
Don't waste your time falling for her but go ahead and get your $%^& wet, like I said, spoken like a true male D, quit making me repeat myself, and buck up cuz thats what you meant. You don't even know what this girls issues may be, the guy kinda of likes her, don't you think a real man might just be a tad more considerate, rather than violate her and send her on her way
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she probably had a rough night and sent those texts in the heat of the moment.
leave her alone for a few days, let her cool down, then send her a message asking to talk.
dont persist further than that.
if she calls u back, then take it from there. if not move on.
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