Relationship advice thread

[TAP]

No offense, but you really come off as bat shit crazy.

Best post ever.

[AtariLegend]

No offense, but you really come off as bat shit crazy.

You know I'm sane, right?

She's my mentor.

[TAP]

Here's my advice - don't discuss the intimate details of your relationship with a bunch of people you've never met on a public message board.

Why not, outside cultures (as long as we have them) often give inspiration and guidance

Don't get me wrong, I love threads like this - a beacon of rule in a sea of suck. But the advice is about as useful as arm wrestling lessons from Rick Allen.

[D]

Hey now, Rick Allen would tear your arm off Right Handed.

[TAP]

Okay, I'm trying to make sense of this thread... So...

Jessica fell in love or had a serious crush on a guy who drinks too much, but realized that she won't be able to date him anymore because of his problems. What's so f*cking crazy about that?

Try harder.

[norway]

Pretend you're engaged or something and just become friends with the other gender.

You probably going to expose a more true and relaxed side to the persons, families and friends.

Then you can still have a great time together-
- the option for something more is always there but if not you're still friends if you clicked.

Yes, I can't stand "dating"...

[Jessica]

Okay, I'm trying to make sense of this thread... So...

Jessica fell in love or had a serious crush on a guy who drinks too much, but realized that she won't be able to date him anymore because of his problems. What's so f*cking crazy about that?

Try harder.

Jada the problem is not me but people looking into a mirror and overlooking a part of themselves they refuse tosee.
I think a lot of people have all sorts of isues and the man I dated chose to be so
Drunk he thought insulting me in public was justified.
He was insanely jealous for no reason and he is the one bat shit crazy because he is into open relationships and yet flies into fits of rage because men look at me. And this happens when he drinks. I saw him way over the limit.
If I hadn't told him, what would have been the next stage?
I don't want a madonna sean Penn thing.
I'd rather be single than with a wacko.

I am hyper sane.

Needy surely. I may take time switching from
One opinion to another but once I
Make up my
Mind there is no turning back.

[Lisa]

HUH?

[norway]

I'd rather be single than with a wacko.

Yeah, same here.

Better to be alone than in bad company, pagan philosophy

[Genesis]

I understand what Jessica is saying perfectly. Why is everyone else acting so daft?

[Drew]

Funnily enough. So I should kneel down and take a druggie or a drunk to be normal ?

Are you on crack ?

In today's society, that's the "cool" thing to do. People some how think they're cool and such a great person if their drinking or taking drugs. It's that whole 'Party on dude!' mentality. 

It's very pathetic!

[Albert S Miller]

When msaxl got married 19 years ago, her husband couldn't decide if he wanted to be a husband or a partyboy, so I helped him figure it out real quick.  When he came home intoxicated I litterally stood behind the front door with a broom, and beat the holy shit out of him with it each time.  Now let me tell you I am not psycho, or violent, but what I did no was that I was not going to live my life under those terms, he also figured it out fairly quick, have had zero trouble since. A relationship can be molded to fit each others needs, if indeed the relationship was truley meant to be, even if it takes a broom to get your point across.

[Layne Staley's Sunglasses]

Fucking cool.

[GypsySoul]

When he came home intoxicated I litterally stood behind the front door with a broom, and beat the holy shit out of him with it each time. 

Fucking cool.

Would you still think it was "Fucking cool" if she (or someone reading that and deciding to try the same method) got that broom ripped out of their hands and beaten back with it to the point of being harmed and hospitalized or killed by the intoxicated person??

My advice is to NEVER confront anyone while they are still intoxicated.  Get yourself to a safe place.
When they are sober, confront them IN A NON-VIOLENT manner. 

[freedom78]

When msaxl got married 19 years ago, her husband couldn't decide if he wanted to be a husband or a partyboy, so I helped him figure it out real quick.  When he came home intoxicated I litterally stood behind the front door with a broom, and beat the holy shit out of him with it each time.  Now let me tell you I am not psycho, or violent, but what I did no was that I was not going to live my life under those terms, he also figured it out fairly quick, have had zero trouble since. A relationship can be molded to fit each others needs, if indeed the relationship was truley meant to be, even if it takes a broom to get your point across.

I don't know about psycho, but I think I must differ on your assessment of yourself as not violent. 

[Layne Staley's Sunglasses]

When he came home intoxicated I litterally stood behind the front door with a broom, and beat the holy shit out of him with it each time. 

Fucking cool.

Would you still think it was "Fucking cool" if she (or someone reading that and deciding to try the same method) got that broom ripped out of their hands and beaten back with it to the point of being harmed and hospitalized or killed by the intoxicated person??

My advice is to NEVER confront anyone while they are still intoxicated.  Get yourself to a safe place.
When they are sober, confront them IN A NON-VIOLENT manner. 

It was cool that she was able to handle her man and she helped him change his ways.

Perhaps I was a bit vague.

[Bandita]

Not sure about the broom beating tactic but glad that all worked out in the end.

[Layne Staley's Sunglasses]

I was a little turned on.

[AxlsMainMan]

I was a little turned on.

Me too dude, women can be pretty sexy when they're angry.

[Lisa]

I want to take a broom to Norway